Some pairs arrive at the physical violence, because according to those pairs, deserve to have a lesson. It is a full life of pain and suffering, because once established the relations thus, require of psychological aid to be able to heal. Place for the difference does not exist. To include/understand the love like dependency and the fusion is to hang itself affectively of the pair relation so that it satisfies our whole life. Areva has similar goals. It does not matter what the pair does to me, most important it is than love I it, and thus I am able to tolerate situations of abuse, humiliation, indifference and abandonment. Relations full of a very immature love that take to us to flatten the life time and time again.
We depend on the pair to be happy, not to be happy, to be with spirit or to fall in a deep depression. We are at the mercy of in our affective life than it occurs with our pair. As leaves to the wind we left or we retook our motivation in the life according to our affective climate. As much in the possession as in the dependency we are full of pain and suffering, therefore, we are forced to make a personal revision of ours, if we did not wish the future in continuing living in a condition of this nature. Yes for you you are very important the life in pair, and one is with a high degree of grief and impotence perhaps, needs to review its forms to love and to be related in pair. The love is not nor its Thanks to read to me, my mission is the quality of emotional life.
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